Who can use the site?
You must be over 18 and you must not have been convicted of or currently be charged with any offence (or are subject to any court order, police investigation, formal caution or similar) specifically relating to fraud, assault, violence, sexual misconduct or harassment.
Types of membership
You may use the site for free as a guest or as a member, however some features are only available to members who have purchased a valid subscription package (Subscribers).
Cancellation and refunds
If you cancel your subscription early, then you may be eligible for a full or partial refund. Please see our Refund Policy below for details on eligibility.
Online dating should be a fun and safe experience. We do our best to ensure users are genuine but you must take responsibility at all times for your own safety. In particular, we would draw your attention to the following advice:-
Never give out your own email address, mobile phone number or other contact details unless you have satisfied yourself that the person you are giving that information to is who they say they are and is to be trusted with such information.
Never give any money or any item of value to anyone who contacts you through the site.
Cancel your membership whenever you wish.
Abide by our rules at all times.
Notify us if you become aware of any other user of the site who is acting inappropriately or not in accordance with these rules.
You must not:
Use the site in any way that might breach any applicable law, regulation or code of conduct.
Include any false, misleading, offensive or sexually explicit content.
Include or attempt to include any contact details (including your surname) in your username, profile headline, profile or in any introductory messages.
Include or attempt to indicate your subscription status or log in details in your profile.
Use, or attempt to use the site for any commercial purposes.
Use any payment method that you are not legally entitled to use.
Use any material that is subject to copyright restrictions.
Include or attempt to include any links to other websites.
User Content and information
TDL is not the publisher of user content, therefore it is your sole responsibility to decide what information you include in your profile or any communication you may have with other users. Please remember that publicly visible information is just that!
We will never divulge any of your personal details to another user.
We may amend or remove all or part of your profile at our sole discretion.
Subject to any consents you may have given, we reserve the right to use all or any part of your profile to help promote the service as we see fit.
We do not verify the accuracy of any information included in a users profile, therefore you should always exercise caution and carry out your own validation before meeting someone in person, or passing on your contact details to them.
We always try to delete any offensive or inappropriate material as soon as we are aware of it. If you spot anything we have missed, please tell us.