Our Rules
We want you to enjoy using the site but we have to have a few rules to ensure it is a safe and enjoyable experience for everyone. This summary tells you the important bits and is intended as a guide only. Please note that you may only use the site if you agree to be bound by the full set of Terms of use (see section below this summary) and our Privacy Policy.
Who can use the site?
You must be over 18 and you must not have been convicted of or currently be charged with any offence (or are subject to any court order, police investigation, formal caution or similar) specifically relating to fraud, assault, violence, sexual misconduct or harassment.
Types of membership
You may use the site for free as a guest or as a member, however some features are only available to members who have purchased a valid subscription package (Subscribers).
Cancellation and refunds
If you cancel your subscription early, then you may be eligible for a full or partial refund. Please see our Refund Policy below for details on eligibility.
Online dating should be a fun and safe experience. We do our best to ensure users are genuine but you must take responsibility at all times for your own safety. In particular, we would draw your attention to the following advice:-
Never give out your own email address, mobile phone number or other contact details unless you have satisfied yourself that the person you are giving that information to is who they say they are and is to be trusted with such information.
Never give any money or any item of value to anyone who contacts you through the site.
You may:
Cancel your membership whenever you wish.
You must:
Abide by our rules at all times.
Notify us if you become aware of any other user of the site who is acting inappropriately or not in accordance with these rules.
You must not:
Use the site in any way that might breach any applicable law, regulation or code of conduct.
Include any false, misleading, offensive or sexually explicit content.
Include or attempt to include any contact details (including your surname) in your username, profile headline, profile or in any introductory messages.
Include or attempt to indicate your subscription status or log in details in your profile.
Use, or attempt to use the site for any commercial purposes.
Use any payment method that you are not legally entitled to use.
Use any material that is subject to copyright restrictions.
Include or attempt to include any links to other websites.
User Content and information
TDL is not the publisher of user content, therefore it is your sole responsibility to decide what information you include in your profile or any communication you may have with other users. Please remember that publicly visible information is just that!
We will never divulge any of your personal details to another user.
We may amend or remove all or part of your profile at our sole discretion.
Subject to any consents you may have given, we reserve the right to use all or any part of your profile to help promote the service as we see fit.
We do not verify the accuracy of any information included in a users profile, therefore you should always exercise caution and carry out your own validation before meeting someone in person, or passing on your contact details to them.
We always try to delete any offensive or inappropriate material as soon as we are aware of it. If you spot anything we have missed, please tell us.
Please read these Terms carefully. By registering as a Member or Subscriber and ticking the box confirming I have read the Terms of use , I grant consent to the use of s as defined in the privacy policy and I confirm that I am over 18 years of age and each time you use the Services (whether or not you register as a Member or Subscriber), you agree to be bound by these Terms. If you do not accept them in full, you must not register as a Member or Subscriber or use the Services.
We may change these Terms or the Privacy Policy at any time by posting a revised version on the Site. Please check the Terms and the Privacy Policy whenever you visit the Site. You will be bound by the revised Terms and Privacy Policy if you continue to use our Services following the date on which the revised Terms or Privacy Policy are published on the Site.